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(Book Summary) All Marketers are Liars - Seth Godin

Get to know marketers.

You know how it goes: you see an AMAZING commercial advertising an AMAZING product. You rush to get it, you buy it, you bring it home. The next day it breaks, crashes – or just does not fulfill the promise made about it in the (no longer so amazing) commercial.

Marketing is about spreading ideas. It’s about telling stories and, in many cases, lies. It’s about tapping into the worlds and minds of consumers – something marketers can be pretty good at.

That’s exactly what these blinks are all about. In fact, in All Marketers Are Liars, the author has  some great insights on the world of marketing, how marketers think and how they have created stories (and fibs and frauds) for decades, which have had  an impact on the lives of many – both for better and for worse.

In these blinks, you’ll learn

  • why spotting your consumers’ worldviews is so important (and how Dr. Atkins did it);
  • why people use similar strategies as frogs; and where the important line is between fibs and frauds.

Marketing is all about telling a story people can believe in.


A long time ago, people noticed that the sun rose every morning, so they developed a story about Helios and his chariot. This occurred long before the concept of “marketing” existed, but it has something fundamental in common with it: a good story.

Effective marketing is all about telling people believable stories. George Riedel, a tenth- generation glass blower, understands this idea well. His company makes glass products and his wine glasses are particularly popular. He says that all wines have a unique “message” which is translated through the glass out of which a person drinks it.

Riedel’s story works amazingly well. Scientific tests have proved there’s no difference between his glasses and others, but wine experts and enthusiasts all around the world insist that wine tastes better  out of a Riedel glass.

That’s the power of marketing. It can change thetaste of a wine.

Marketing schemes like Riedel’s succeed because in today’s world, people buy what they want, not what they need. That’s how marketers earn their profits.

Think of it this way: imagine a young woman who buys a pair of Puma sneakers for $125 – which were produced for $3 in China. She doesn’t buy them because of their durability or the support they give her feet. She buys them because, once she puts  them on, she feels cool. She imagines her life and image will improve slightly once she gets those shoes.

What the Puma marketers really sold the young woman is a story – a story that she’s special, hip and fashionable – and people spread stories. They rarely buy a product just for its particular
features. So remember, if you can tell a good story, you’ll reach them.


Get a feeling for your customers’ worldview.


You might assume that everyone wants the same things in life: success, security, good health, love, respect, happiness, etc. But it’s not that simple. We don’t all want the same things.

Each person has his own worldview, which is formed by his values, biases and assumptions. A person’s worldview is influenced by his parents, the schools he went to, the places he‘s lived and the other environments he’s been in. Their worldview determines which stories they’re going to believe.

For example, if you were cheated the last time you bought a car from a used car salesman, that would affect your worldview the next time you go to another dealership. You’d have a different worldview from a person who has successfully bought three cars from that dealership in the past.

So customers aren’t all the same. Then again, they aren’t completely different.

People from similar backgrounds develop similar worldviews. Your job as a marketer is to find a group of people who have nearly the same worldview and tell a story that speaks directly to them.

For example, there are new mothers whose highest priority is their children’s growth and education, bodybuilders who think the next nutritional supplement is the shortcut to a perfect body and environmentalists who think the next scientific innovation will be the one to save humanity. Each   of these groups wants to hear stories that agree with their worldview.

Baby Einstein, a division of Disney, told a great  story in 2004 when they sold $150 million worth of videos for newborns and infants. The name, along with an aggressive marketing campaign, convinced parents that the videos would make their children smarter. These parents wanted to feel like they were helping their children, even though research later showed the videos had little or no effect on children’s intellect.

Tailor your story to your customers’ worldview.


So you’ve spent the time getting a good understanding of your customer base’s worldview. What’s next?

The next step is to create a story, or frame, that matches that worldview. The frame allows you to present your story to your customers in a way that’s meaningful.

Interstate Bakeries, the company behind Twinkies and Wonder Bread, went bankrupt when their customers’ worldview changed: when Dr. Atkins’s low-carb diet became all the rage, people no longer wanted to feed things like Twinkies to their children. They wanted something healthier.

During that same time, General Mills took advantage of the shift in worldview. Shortly after  the Atkins craze started, General Mills adjusted  their story by using 100% whole grains in all of their cereal brands, including Lucky Charms. It framed  its cereals as healthy, which aligned with the negative view of carbohydrates that prevailed at the time.

The key is to identify a group of people who are open to hearing a new story because of their particular worldview.

Imagine your boss asks you to design the marketing campaign for a new kind of salty snack. There are plenty of snacks in the supermarket so you need a story that will make yours stand out.

You might target new moms who believe salty snacks are unhealthy for their kids and create a story for them: the snacks will be made from soy, not potatoes. They’ll be organic, low-fat and salted with sea-salt rather than sodium. They’ll come in a box rather than a bag and you’ll sell them in the produce department instead of the snack aisle.


People only pay attention to new information and they create stories to make sense of it.

A key part of telling great stories is understanding how the brain responds to new ideas and how we process information.

When people encounter something new, they compare it to what they already know. Humans are similar to frogs in that sense: we only react to changes and ignore anything that isn’t new.

How does a frog spot a fly, aim its tongue at it and catch it all in less than a second? It ignores everything static around it and keeps an eye out for change in its environment. In the same way, when you walk into your house, you notice immediately if something has changed.

Humans can’t catch flies with their tongues but we can tell right away if the supermarket gets a new brand of beer or the mailman gets a haircut.

Once people notice something new, their brains start trying to understand it. People naturally search for explanations for what they see because the brain is restless and doesn’t like randomness.

So if a window breaks, we might look for an object on the floor: we immediately develop a theory on how the window broke and check to see if it’s true.

The New York Times once ran an article concerning this phenomenon. The article was about people who were convinced that the shuffle feature on their iPods was broken. They were certain their iPods favored some songs over others. But randomness doesn’t necessarily dictate that the songs be distributed evenly.

This is why stories are so important: they allow us to make sense of the world. If you want people to engage with the new information you give them, you have to make sure your story is authentic.
Authenticity is the thing that makes or breaks your story.


Only authentic stories have a resounding impact on people.

We’ve all judged people based on their appearance before, even if we didn’t mean to. We make quick judgements about people and objects all the time, often without realizing it. As a marketer, it’s your job to make sure your customers make the right judgment when they’re first exposed to your product.

There’s a difference between your customer’s first contact with your brand and their first impression of it. People often confuse these two things. The customer’s first contact with the brand is simply that: their very first contact, which might not necessarily generate a reaction. Their first meaningful reaction is their first impression.

Imagine you receive a promotional email from an online store. That would be your first contact, but you might not form any opinion on the store. If you buy some shoes from them later and the shoes  never arrive, that would create your first impression
– and it wouldn’t be a positive one!

First impressions are vital, but you never know which aspect of your business is going to generate the first impression. That’s why authenticity is so important.

Your story is authentic when it’s coherent relative to all aspects of your business. Your product, your employees and your company’s message all need to align with each other.

That means all of your company’s potential first contact points need to resonate with the message you’re trying to send. So if your logo and location are cool but your staff is rude or your products are subpar, your story isn’t coherent and you aren’t authentic.

You won’t reach out to a large number of people without a coherent and authentic story.
Authenticity is the key to connecting with your customer base.


Marketers shouldn’t cross the fine line between fibs and frauds.

It would be unethical to market a speaker cable for
$99 if it only worked as well as a $10 one, right? Marketers should be honest and consumers should be rational, right?

Unfortunately, it’s not that simple. People aren’t always rational when it comes to making purchases. Most of us would like to think we buy products because of their quality or function. We spend our hard-earned money on useful things that make our lives better; we don’t waste it on foolish trends.

But it’s nearly impossible to avoid buying overpriced products. Almost everyone gives into buying an expensive designer T-shirt or eating out at a trendy restaurant every once in a while.

Marketers know they can take advantage of their customers’ irrational behavior. That’s why some come up with fibs to sell their products.

Fibs are little lies that help the company’s story come true. They don’t need to have any negative effect on the customer.

George Riedel, our wine glass maker from before, is a fibber. He’s a sort of “honest liar,” if you will. He tells his customer that his glasses improve the taste of fine wines. That’s not true, scientifically  speaking, but it becomes true because the customers believe it.

Fibs like this are harmless and can even improve  the customer’s experience. It’s another matter when marketers engage in fraud.

Fibs and fraud are not the same thing. When marketers tell overt lies that are harmful to their customers, that’s fraud.

Nestlé committed fraud a few decades ago when they told their customers that bottle-feeding was better than breastfeeding, inadvertently contributing to the death of over a million babies, according to UNICEF. If Nestlé had told an authentic story aimed at mothers who had trouble breastfeeding, they could’ve avoided that tragedy and built a long-term business. Stories need to help the customers, not hurt them.



Final summary

The key message in this book:

Get to know your customers, then craft a special   and authentic story just for them. Make sure every aspect of your business – from your staff to your products to your logo – fits in with that story. Use harmless fibs if it helps you and your customers, but don’t ever commit fraud against them. When you reach out to people in a meaningful and sincere  way, you’ll build a relationship that benefits both sides. 
Actionable advice:
Tailor your story to a small audience. Don’t try to appeal to everyone or you’ll water your story down. When your story targets a more specific audience, it’s much more powerful.


Further view : Seth Godin " Marketers are liars" , Speak at Google

Eat Red instead of Eat White and Get healthier..



Even though most of the rice eaten in the Indonesia is white ,the more exotic varieties and colorful are more and more obtainable in supermarkets like super*ndo. If you are looking for an alternative to your usual white rice, consider trying red rice. Red rice can help you meet your iron needs.

These are the list of benefits red over the white, I got and I edited from several source, I also attached the source below.

Whole Grain

Red rice is considered a whole grain. A whole-grain food retains the entire grain seed, including the germ, bran and endosperm. People who include more whole grains in their diet have lower rates of heart disease and Type 2 diabetes. In addition, people with higher intakes of whole grains also tend to have lower body weights.


Source of Fiber

As a whole grain, red rice can help you meet your daily fiber needs. A quarter cup serving of red rice contains 2 grams of fiber, meeting 8 percent of your daily value for fiber. Fiber is a type of carbohydrate your body cannot digest, and may be best known for its ability to help improve bowel function and prevent constipation.
Fiber in foods such red rice can also help control hunger by slowing digestion, which in turn aids in weight control.
In addition, fiber can also help reduce risk of heart disease by helping to lower blood cholesterol levels, blood pressure and inflammation.

Source of Iron

Red rice may help you meet your daily iron needs. A 1/4-cup serving meets 2 percent of your daily value for iron. Iron is an essential mineral your body needs to help carry oxygen throughout your body. Without enough iron in your diet, your body may not get the oxygen it needs, causing you to feel tired and lowering your ability to fight infection. Iron deficiency anemia is the most common nutritional deficiency in the world, according to the Office of Dietary Supplements. Including iron-rich foods in your diet, like red rice, can help ensure you meet your daily needs.

Fat Free

Red rice is also fat-free. While fat is an essential nutrient that provides your body with energy and aids in the absorption of fat-soluble vitamins, high intakes of fat have been linked to heart disease and certain types of cancers, according to Penn Medicine. High intakes of fat also increase your risk of obesity. You should limit your daily fat intake to less than 30 percent of calories, or about 65 grams on a 2,000-calorie diet.

Lignan

Lignans converted to enterodiole and enterolactone are inversely related to death. Red rice is a source of plant lignan that protects us from death as it gets converted to enterodiole and enterolactone. This is one of the lesser known benefits of red rice which cannot be ignored at any cost.

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Is that possible to deliberately spilt infinitive ?


The "rule" against splitting infinitives came along in the 1800s, but it wasn't initially put forth as a rule.

What Are Infinitives?

Infinitives are the two-word forms of verbs such as to read, to write, and to illustrate.
to read
to write
to illustrate

What Is a Split Infinitive?

The safest choice is to keep away splitting infinitives.
When you split an infinitive, you put something (usually an adverb) between the two:
to diligently read

to happily write
          to scientifically illustrate

If you want to remember what a split infinitive is, just remember what might be the most famous example: Star Trek's to boldly go where no one has gone before. To boldly go is a split infinitive. Boldly splits to go.
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The Origin of the Split Infinitive Rule

The idea that you shouldn’t put an adverb in the middle of an infinitive was mentioned earlier but was most prominently introduced by Henry Alford, the Dean of Canterbury, in his 1864 book The Queen’s English.

Alford didn’t state it a rule though. Instead, in response to a correspondent who liked phrases such as “to scientifically illustrate,” he said he saw “no good reason to split the infinitive. One reason Alford gave for his belief was that nobody was doing it (“. . . this practice is entirely unknown to English speakers and writers.”), but the Oxford English Dictionary disagrees, reporting that split infinitives were widespread at the time.

In fact, many respected writers, both before and after Alford’s time, have employed split infinitives, including Thomas Cromwell, Daniel Defoe, Lord Byron, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Elizabeth Gaskell, Benjamin Franklin, and Elizabeth Barrett Browning.

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Split Infinitives in Formal Writing

Even though early objectors claimed that split infinitives were the currency of the uneducated, a 2010 study by Moisés D. Perales-Escudero from the University of Michigan found that some split infinitives are common in formal situations: for example, the phrase to better understand commonly appears in academic, magazine, and newspaper writing.

Sometimes You Can Avoid a Split Infinitive

Some split infinitives have become set phrases in English, such as Star Trek’s “to boldly go,” meaning that “to go boldly” would sound odd. In the case of a typical split infinitive, however, a writer can usually move the intervening words without much offense: “I’m going to generously frost these cupcakes,” becomes “I’m going to frost these cupcakes generously.

In less common instances, moving the adverb makes the sentence awkward: “I want to quickly stop at the bank” becomesI want to stop at the bank quickly.” (A more natural-sounding choice would be “I want to stop at the bank for a minute.”)

In some cases, moving the adverb can also change the meaning: “I’m going to really sock him in the kisser,” means it’s going to be quite a punch, but “I’m really going to sock him in the kisser,” conveys more of a sense of determination than a commentary on the strength of the impending punch. [Note: "I'm going to really sock him in the kisser" is an example of a split verb rather than a split infinitive. "Am going to" is a phrasal modal; it means "will."]

Finally, some sentences require a split infinitive: for example, in a 2004 Language Log post, Arnold Zwicky provides an instance in which a writer must split an infinitive: “. . . he expects the staff size to more than double within two years.”
You can’t move “more than” anywhere else in that sentence without a major rewrite.
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Should You Avoid Splitting Infinitives?

When faced with the clear lack of evidence that splitting infinitives is wrong, but also faced with the almost knee-jerk reaction that is common in the general population— “Split infinitives? Wrong!” (or the vague notion “I’m not sure what split infinitives are, but I think I heard they are wrong,”)—what’s a modern writer to do?

The only logical reason to avoid splitting infinitives is that there are still a lot of people who mistakenly think it is wrong. If you write from a position of power, split your infinitives as much as you want.

Be guided by the sound and flow of your sentence. On the other hand, if you have to please others or avoid complaints, it’s safer to avoid splitting infinitives.
"There's no reason to deliberately split infinitives when you know it's going to upset people". 
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This article originally appeared in OfficePro Magazine, a publication of the International Association of Administrative Professionals.[Note: This is a revised version of an article that originally appeared on this page on August 20, 2010.]
Source quickanddirtytips


Understanding The Root-Cause-Analysis

It's so interesting for us to solve such a problem. We all know that if we only fix the symptoms – what we see on surface – the problem will almost certainly return, and need fixing over, and over again.

However, if we look deeper to see what is causing the problem, we can fix the underlying problems and it goes away for good.
Based on the definition by wikipedia ,"Root cause analysis (RCA) is a method of problem solving used for identifying the root causes of faults or problems. A factor is considered a root cause if removal thereof from the problem fault-sequence prevents the final undesirable event from recurring; whereas a causal factor is one that affects an event's outcome, but is not a root cause. Though removing a causal factor can benefit an outcome, it does not prevent its recurrence within certainty".
Root Cause Analysis (RCA) is a popular and often-used technique that helps people answer the question of why the problem occurred in the first place. It seeks to identify the origin of a problem using a specific set of steps, with associated tools, to find the primary cause of the problem, so that you can:

  • Determine what happened.
  • Determine why it happened.
  • Figure out what to do to reduce the likelihood that it will happen again.

RCA assumes that systems and events are interrelated. An action in one area triggers an action in another, and another, and so on. By tracing back these actions, you can discover where the problem started and how it grew into the symptom you're now facing.

You'll usually find three basic types of causes:

  • Physical causes – Tangible, material items failed in some way (for example, a car's brakes stopped working).
  • Human causes – People did something wrong, or did not do something that was needed. Human causes typically lead to physical causes (for example, no one filled the brake fluid, which led to the brakes failing).
  • Organizational causes – A system, process, or policy that people use to make decisions or do their work is faulty (for example, no one person was responsible for vehicle maintenance, and everyone assumed someone else had filled the brake fluid).

RCA looks at all three types of causes. It involves investigating the patterns of negative effects, finding hidden flaws in the system, and discovering specific actions that contributed to the problem. This often means that RCA reveals more than one root cause.
You can apply RCA to almost any situation. Determining how far to go in your investigation requires good judgment and common sense.

The Root Cause Analysis Process


RCA has five identifiable steps.

Step One: Define the Problem

  • What do you see happening?
  • What are the specific symptoms?



Step Two: Collect Data

  • What proof do you have that the problem exists?
  • How long has the problem existed?
  • What is the impact of the problem?

You need to analyze a situation fully before you can move on to look at factors that contributed to the problem. To maximize the effectiveness of your RCA, get together everyone – experts and front line staff – who understands the situation. People who are most familiar with the problem can help lead you to a better understanding of the issues.

A helpful tool at this stage is CATWOE  . With this process, you look at the same situation from different perspectives: the Customers, the people (Actors) who implement the solutions, the Transformation process that's affected, the World view, the process Owner, and Environmental constraints.

Step Three: Identify Possible Causal Factors


  • What sequence of events leads to the problem?
  • What conditions allow the problem to occur?
  • What other problems surround the occurrence of the central problem?
During this stage, identify as many causal factors as possible. Too often, people identify one or two factors and then stop, but that's not sufficient. With RCA, you don't want to simply treat the most obvious causes – you want to dig deeper.

Use these tools to help identify causal factors:

  • 5 Whys   – Ask "Why?" until you get to the root of the problem.
  • Cause and Effect Diagrams   – Create a chart of all of the possible causal factors, to see where the trouble may have begun.

Step Four: Identify the Root Cause(s)


Why does the causal factor exist?
What is the real reason the problem occurred?
Use the same tools you used to identify the causal factors (in Step Three) to look at the roots of each factor. These tools are designed to encourage you to dig deeper at each level of cause and effect.

Step Five: Recommend and Implement Solutions


What can you do to prevent the problem from happening again?How will the solution be implemented?Who will be responsible for it?What are the risks of implementing the solution?
Analyze your cause-and-effect process, and identify the changes needed for various systems. It's also important that you plan ahead to predict the effects of your solution. This way, you can spot potential failures before they happen.

One way of doing this is to use Failure Mode and Effects Analysis   (FMEA). This tool builds on the idea of risk analysis to identify points where a solution could fail. FMEA is also a great system to implement across your organization; the more systems and processes that use FMEA at the start, the less likely you are to have problems that need RCA in the future.

Impact Analysis is another useful tool here. This helps you explore possible positive and negative consequences of a change on different parts of a system or organization.

Another great strategy to adopt is Kaizen ,or continuous improvement. This is the idea that continual small changes create better systems overall. Kaizen also emphasizes that the people closest to a process should identify places for improvement. Again, with Kaizen alive and well in your company, the root causes of problems can be identified and resolved quickly and effectively.

-Key Points-

Root Cause Analysis is a useful process for understanding and solving a problem.
Figure out what negative events are occurring. Then, look at the complex systems around those problems, and identify key points of failure. Finally, determine solutions to address those key points, or root causes. 
You can use many tools to support your RCA  process. Cause and Effect Diagrams and 5 Whys are integral to the process itself, while FMEA   and Kaizen help minimize the need for RCA in the future.
As an analytical tool, RCA is an essential way to perform a comprehensive, system-wide review of significant problems as well as the events and factors leading to them.

Ginger Tea - Homemade Version


Ginger with Honey and Lemon
We are Indonesian, we are used to drinking something as they warm enough or are about to just from the heater.

"Nothing beats cold in the winter like a piping hot cup of ginger tea. With its high levels of Vitamin C, magnesium and other minerals, ginger root is extremely beneficial for health."

I have to admit that I love to drink as they warm, but there is a drink that can be still warm and make you warm despite the temparature is not so high.

I guess there are no people who dont like ginger tea, really? Yes of course. At least after some of you are educated with the advanteges of Ginger Root & Ginger Tea.

With so many healthy properties to it, it makes sense to start adding this to more of your dishes, or to start brewing a daily glass of ginger tea.

To make a good ginger tea, all you need is fresh ginger and filtered water. The rest of the ingredients are optional, but it might taste better with a little honey in it, as well a splash of fresh lemon juice.

Enjoy Hot Ginger Tea!!!
Peel the ginger and slice thinly to maximize the surface area. This will help you make a very flavorful ginger tea.
Remove from heat and add lime juice and honey to taste.

Here is my secret to making a really flavorful ginger tea is to use plenty of ginger - more than you think you will need - and also to add a bit of lime juice and honey to your ginger tea.

You will also probably want to add more honey than you think you will need as well.

Enjoy your hot ginger tea! A homemade ginger tea is excellent in soothing stomach aches and in aiding digestion.

Kebiasaan 1 : Jadiliah Proaktif

Cermin sosial
Kita sering kali ditentukan oleh pengkondisian dan kondisi. Ada tiga buah peta sosial-tiga teori determinisme yang diterima secara luas.

  • Determinisme genetis : bergantung atas keadaan/turunan genetis, misalnya ; orang tua kita mudah marah maka hal itu menurun pada diri kita.
  • Determinisme psikis : bergantung pada kondisi psikis dimasa lama, misalnya ;kita menjadi penakut karena pernah dilakukan tidak baik pada saat dulu.
  • Determinisme lingkungan : bergantung atas keadaan sosial kini, misalnya; kita menjadi orang yang malas karena keadaan kita yang serba kekurangan.
Masing masing dari determinisme ini adalah model reaktif

Diantara Stimulus Dan Respons
Sifat menadasar dari manusia adalah “Diantra stimulus dan respons, manusia memiliki kebebasan untuk memilih”. Dalam kebebasan untuk memilih inilah terdapat Anugrah ilahi yang menjadikan manusia unik .

 
Definisi “Proaktivitas
Proaktif berarti bahwa kita bertanggung jawab atas hidup kita sendiri. Perilaku kita adalah fungsi dari keputusan kita, bukan kondisi kita. Kita dapat menomor duakan perasaan setelah nilai.

Reponsibility- “resonse-ability”- kemampuan untuk memilih respons kita.

Eleanor Roosevelt pernah mengemukakan,” Tak seorang pun dapat menyakiti kita tanpa persetujuan kita”, atau kata kata Mahatma Gandhi, “Mereka tidak dapat merenggut harga diri kita jika kita tidak memberikannya kepada mereka”.

Izin yang kita berikan secara rela, persetujuan kita atas apa yang terjadi pada diri kita inilah yang menyakiti kita jauh lebih besar daripada apa yang sebenarnya terjadi pada diri kita.

Mendengarkan Bahasa Kita
Bahasa kita adalah indikator yang sangat riil mengenai tingkatan kita memandang diri kita sebagai orang yang proaktif.
Bahasa orang yang reaktif melepaskan tanggung jawab.



Dalam pengertian yang mendalam, cinta adalah kata kerja. Orang yang reaktif menjadikannya bukan kata kerja. Orang proaktif menjadikan cinta sebagai kata kerja. Cinta adalah sesuatu yang kita lakukan;pengorbanan yang kita buat, pemberian kita.

Lingkaran Kepedulian Dan Lingkaran Pengaruh.



Salah satu cara untuk lebih sadar sehubungan dengan tingkat produktivitas kita adalah dengan melihat Diana kita memfokuskan waktu dan energi kita.

Terdapat dua lingkaran yaitu;
  • Lingkaran kepeduliaan (Circle of Concern) : Lingkaran ini berisi hal hal yang kita pedulikan –masalah di tempat kerja, utang negara, terorisme, perang nuklir.
  • Lingkaran pengaruh (Circle of influence) : Lingkaran ini berisi hal hal yang bisa kita kontrol.

Orang orang proaktif memfokuskan diri mereka ke dalam Lingkaran pengaruh (Circle of influence).


Sebaliknya orang reaktif memfokuskan diri mereka ke lingkaran kepeduliaan. Mereka berfokus pada kelemahan orang lain, masalah di lingkungan, dan keadaan yang mereka tidak bisa kendalikan.Fokus ini mengakibatkan sikap menyalahkan, menuduh, dan pada akhirnya menjadikan dirinya menjadi korban.

Langsung, Tak Langsung , Dan Tanpa Kontrol
Masalah yang kita hadapi masuk ke dalam salah satu dari tiga bidang:

  • Kontrol langsung ;yang melibatkan perilaku kita sendiri.
  • kontrol tak langsung;yang melibatkan perilaku orang lain
  • Tanpa kontrol: yang kita tidak dapat berbuat langsung kepadanya,seperti masa lalu.

Masalah tanpa kontrol memerlukan pengambilan tanggung Jawab untuk mengubah garis pada bagian wajah kita- untuk tersenyum, untuk menerima secara tulus dan damai masalah masalah ini dan belajar untuk hidup bersamnya, walaupun kita tidak menyukainya.

“Tuhan beri saya keberanian untuk mengubah apa yang dapat dan harus usaha ubah,ketenangan untuk menerima apa yang tidak dapat dirubah dan kebijaksanaan untuk mengetahui perbedaannya”.

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Engineering and Sales : The Two which has Inter-relationship

As and engineering people I believe The streghtness between The Two field above. 

In engineering we make a Products or a Solutions for problem encountered, in sales we make a strategy to sale Products produced by engineering division. 


The Cross relation between the two will be apparent as soon as we talk about the purposes of the company. Apparently company has a purpose to sell their product / services as much as they can handle it

So that the clue become apparent here “sell”. If the engineering people insist that the most important part of the company is the engineering division because this is the hearth of customizing and making product ,the sales division will be soaking and boasting that the key elements of each company is selling what they made. 

The wise option is to join together as part of a team, or educate engineers so that they have such a sales perspective ?? 
Which one will be more effective over the other or we must combine the two,so the force will be even greater.